Who Gives and Who Takes in a Relationship?
So I feel it was necessary to write this blog do to pure and utter frustration on the topic. My question to all of you who may be reading this is, why does it always seem that the girl is the one who puts all of her heart into a relationship, while the guy is usually the one with questionable motives? I know that sometimes it can be the other way around, but as a girl, this is the type of situation I usually experience.
I don't think it's right to have doubts or questions about whether or not your partner is happy in the relationship. A girl wants to feel like she is special. A girl wants a guy who would keep his focus souly on her even if a porn star walked into the same room. But as always, we are being compared to everything with boobs and vagina's around us. The thing that pisses me off most is when we asked questions or wonder if the relationship is heading in the right direction, it is called a phase. No, we have our doubts because we don't believe that you are committed to us and only us, simple as that. Why is it so hard to find a guy who doesn't revolve every ounce of his life around boobs, vagina's, who has the hottest body, sex. threesomes, girls, porn, cars, or video games? Those are the things you claim to "love". Those are the things we have to compare ourselves to? You wonder why we're so insecure...there's a start. What happened to true love and chivalry? The type of relationship where both of you know that I am yours and you are mine forever, no distractions. A relationship needs to be as follows...1. God 2.Spouse 3.Family. Without that sort of balance, you are setting up for a major fall. Here I am realizing this as I type it out onto this sheet of paper. You know that the problem is? Worldy things...Sex, Drugs, and Alcohol. This problem will not be solved until we can look at what is offered beyond those worldy demons.
